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Casa: the humiliation, the inhumanity

October 6, 1999 by
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I really want to save kids’ lives, the humiliation, the inhumanity, the conditions and treatment. If I suffer just a little more, It’s a small price to pay.I loved my life that I had going for me. I was a sophomore with decent grades, a really cute boyfriend who treated me like a princess and some really awesome friends. I was always at the parties, I had made a name for myself, everyone knew Jennifer.

I was born and raised in a small town not from from Seattle, called Poulsbo, Washington. I was raised by my mother and had very little contact with my Father. They have been divorced for quite some time now. I attended school there, and was considered part of the popular crowd. Life was good. I came down with a mental illness called PMDD (premenstrual dysphoric disorder) on top of being bi-polar, and having depression, started smoking marijuana, all when I was 14 years old. It wasn’t documented until over a year later when my doctor told my mother that I was a good kid, I just had some issues that could be taken care of with the right dosage of medication. My mother and I were fine for awhile but soon things were back to the way they had been before. We started fighting more, and I was losing the good reputation I had worked so hard to achieve. I was slumping into average and since I had always been an “A”student with all the popular friends, my mother got worried, and when she worried I suffered the consequences of her fears. The fighting went off and on for 2 more years. I continued to use, and looked for comfort in the back seats of cars. I didn’t know how to communicate with my mother anymore. Maybe it was me finding my own path, maybe it was the fact that I was jealous of my little sister, maybe my medication dosage wasn’t high enough, I don’t know where it all went wrong. But it did.

Soon, we couldn’t stay in the same room with each other, and I told her I was going to live with my father again. Something we had tried a few years prior, but was an unsuccessful attempt. My Father being more of a child than I was at that time. My mother and I had our final fight, and I left in the middle of the night to my fathers house. When I arrived at my Dad’s house, he said understood what had happened, but he didn’t want my Mom to worry so he called her and told her where I was. She wanted to talk to me but I refused. She told my father the cops would be there soon to pick me up, and not to tell me. So I left, I went to my boyfriend’s house who lived within walking distance from my cousin who was also my best friend. I went back and fourth between their houses for a little over a week. I quit my job so the cops wouldn’t be able to find me there, and I worried what I was going to do when summer was over, and I had to return to school. I had no where to go, little time and no money to devise a plan. I went back to my cousin’s house one morning to talk to her about my options. I later found out that my mother had manipulated her into telling her where I was. My cousin and I were sitting down watching “The Never Ending Story” when there was a loud knock at the door. My Aunt went to get the door and she slowly walked to the living room. “Jenny, it’s for you.” she said in a dis-hearted tone and she looked at the floor, her eyes refusing to meet mine. I think at that moment my heart stopped beating as I looked upon the officer that stood in the doorway. I couldn’t move, I couldn’t think, I couldn’t breathe. Time just stood still, and I knew my life was about to change drastically. I wish I hadn’t been so right.

The officer talked to me for awhile and I just got more and more angry the more I heard. In Washington State a child can legally run away from home at the age of 16. If a parent wants that child arrested, they have to have an imagination. As they took me out of the house to the police car waiting in the driveway, my Aunt pleaded with me how much my mother loved me and how she was just trying to help me. I turned and looked my mother in the face, who had been parked just down the street, and without and remorse, told her that I hated her. That was the first time I had ever told my mother that. I was taken from my cousin’s house to the nearest juvenile facility, and held in CRC, a place for apprehended runaways. When they realized they had no reason to hold me, that I never tried to kill my family, the reason I was arrested in the first place. I sat in CRC and stewed ways to get back at my Mother. I refused her phone calls and sat quietly.

One day I was taken from the room and put in a conference room with my Mother, Father, and Step-Father, and a few mediators. I pleaded to go live with my father because the relationship between my mother and I was not healthy and I felt like I couldn’t forgive her for what she had put me through the past few days. She said, “I haven’t decided what I am going to do with you yet, but you living with your Father is not an option.” My Father and I both pleaded again. Again with no prevail. I was escorted back to my room in CRC. where I spent the rest of the day. The following morning I awoke and thought to myself, what’s the worst she can do? That was the LAST TIME I ever even thought that about my mother. I got a phone call later that day from my Mom. She had made special arrangements for me to stay in CRC for a few extra days while she got the “details” set up. I asked her what she was talking about and she hesitated… “I’m sending you to a boot camp in Montana.” I asked her what she was talking about and she began to explain, but every word she spoke made my blood boil hotter and hotter until The sound of her voice made me sick. I hung up on her and thought about my life and how it was going to change. I wasn’t too upset because I thought it would give my body that edge I was looking for. I thought of it as a 24 hour live-in gym. And I wasn’t too angry with the idea. I still thought it was unfair of my mother to do that to me. I felt like she was just tossing me out like a dirty diaper. My life was none of her business, but she was determined to make it hers.

The next day the phone was for me again. It was my Mom, and the CRC staff recommended that I hear her out. I obliged. She told me she changed her mind and a smile swept over my face. But before I could say anything she quickly added, I’m sending you to a behavioral program in Mexico. I threw the phone off the desk and it hit the floor. I screamed a few choice words and ran up the stairs to my assigned room. I had heard about these places, the places that really bad kids go. I kept thinking, all I want to do is live with my Dad. She came by to talk to me and I recommended to the staff that they NOT place us in the same room because they didn’t want to deal with an assault charge on my record. I knew I wouldn’t be able to control myself. So she dropped off the pamphlets and left. I read all about how “wonderful “Casa by the Sea” was; a beautiful part of Mexico. I could have the best schooling, meet life long friends, and be a happier person. I eased up on the idea. Okay, so my boyfriend and I would have to spend some time apart but I could still call him every night, and write him and my friends. I was told “It’s just like college, but your not supposed to leave” I thought, cool, college? sounds alright, a few parties, maybe a little drinking, some cute boys for eye candy, catch a nice tan. And above all else, I didn’t have to see my Mom. I was wrong. I wish I would have known how wrong I was.

But still in a defiant mind frame, I told my mother they’d have to drag my dead body there, because I wasn’t going. She said that she had already arranged the transportation. I was extremaly confused when she said she had hired Rudy and Maria for $2,000 + expenses, to escort me there.

Early one of the following mornings, August 11th 2001, my room was unlocked and one of the staff members called my name to come get ready. It was about 4:30am, but I hadn’t slept. I quickly showered, got ready, and waited until 6:00 am for Rudy and Maria to show up. Rudy talked to me calmly and told me I could make this as easy, or as hard as I wanted. I told him I would comply and he held my belt loop on my pants and I was told to put my hands in my pockets. I did as I was told and walked to the car, my mother was behind me crying and saying, ” I love you Jennifer, I only do this because I love you.” I shot her one last dirty look and got into the car.

“So are we driving all the way there?” I asked. They laughed from the front seat. “No silly were flying.” Maria replied. She was a very pretty Mexican who in the next 10 hours, I would really enjoy spending my time with. I was excited, I had never been out of the state, let alone out of the country, never been on an airplane, I was like a kid in a candy store, they kept saying all day long that they had never had an escort they liked as well as me. During our layover we went to In-and-Out Burger, and Krispy Kreme doughnuts. I had a blast that day, until we crossed the boarder and began the journey into Mexico. All around me was poverty, naked children, and boxes made into homes. I began to appreciate what I had left in the states.

“Were here!” Maria said. I looked at the gates in disbelief. “Your joking right?” No. I wish they had been. We drove in and I was taken immediately and stripped of my belongings. My clothes were taken down to my underwear, in front of another student and a staff member. Everything was taken from me, and I was put into a uniform and placed into a classroom. Everyone looked at me, but everyone looked the same. The student introduced me to the staff member in charge, but I didn’t understand her. “Does everyone speak Spanish?” I asked. The student laughed and said you do too. Good luck kid, this is Ginger, your new buddy, you’ll do fine here, just allow yourself to change. Ginger asked the woman in charge something in Spanish and was given permission. She looked at me and said, “Okay we have permission to talk. This is the rule book” she pulled out a collection of about 20 papers that were in a folder, “you can have mine I’ve memorized it, and I don’t need it anymore.” She began to try to explain the rules to me. I was very confused. Soon I began to catch on though. She explained that Levels are gained by attitude the level of change that has taken place within that person. It felt like a cross between a perfection contest and a cult. The prize? Everything you have ever known and loved.

I had never seen so many kids behave in such a fashion before. It was like they were programed. It was very scary. The first week I was there, they couldn’t find me a water bottle, so I didn’t get any water until 9 days later when I was finally given one, It was Mexico in August, and I was denied water! But that was just the beginning.

The night I arrived happened to be uniform night, where we turn in our dirty uniforms and get new ones. I was in line to get a new uniform when the girl in front of me was not paying attention and fell behind in line. I whispered loudly, “Run!” so she would not get in trouble. Little did I know that the staff would interpret that was a “Category 4 rule violation, run away plans. Before I could understand what was happening,I was sent to “R and R” more commonly known as “room restriction” I was there for 2 days until I was dismissed by the headmaster.

In R and R you are to sit with your nose one inch from the wall, with your legs folded under the weight of your body, your arms are to be held behind your back, they cannot touch the floor, your back, or each other. Your back and neck must remain rigid and straight. Sooner than you might think, your arms fall asleep, your legs fall asleep, there is no blood going to them. They ache so badly it puts you into tears. They throb and just when you think you are going to collapse and endure the consequences, you get a bathroom break. 3 bathroom breaks. 3 meal breaks. Many people say, If I were you I would have just told them to screw themselves, but I’ve heard the screaming that comes from R and R sometimes. I never found out what happened that made the girls scream like that, but I never wanted to find out.

You are supervised by 3 staff members, who socialize in Spanish all day long. They do not talk to you, nor are you aloud to talk to them. You may not request permission to do anything. If you have to use the restroom you wait until it is offered. Besides, these 3 particular staff members didn’t understand English anyway, so it would have done me no good.

When I finally got out, people looked at me like I was a trouble maker, like I didn’t fit in. I felt like an outcast. Everyone seemed like they were perfect. I didn’t understand the rules, the society, or the language. I hated my life. Every day I would daydream about another suicidal fantasy, but one in particular still etches itself in my brain. My favorite of all my horrible mental illusions, was getting as close to the window as I could, quickly grabbing a chair, and breaking the window to dive face first through the window onto the the cement 2 stories below. It seemed to be the only thought that made me happy for months. I knew I could do it. But I wanted so badly to come home and be with my best friend and my boyfriend again that I never did. I regretted my decision every night when I layed down in my bed and a staff member monitored me while I cried myself to sleep. I honestly can’t tell you why I never did it. I heard of a girl that killed herself in Tranquility Bay, Jamaica, another one of the W.W.A.S.P. (World Wide Association of Specialty Programs) and I closed my eyes and watched her face become mine as I lived out my dream again in my head. I found out later. Thats exactly how she died. Apparently I wasn’t alone.

I could tell you hundreds of stories of how, when it would rain maggots would cover the ground, and it was impossible to take a step without squishing them under your feet as you walked to the commodore to eat your meal’s of mystery meat, rice and beans. The malnutrition and stress either made you lose incredible amounts of weight, or gain obscene amounts. I went from about 115 to 168 in 8 months. (I gained more than twice as much weight in the 8 months that I was there, then the 9 months I was pregnant) Or how you were to undress in front of 30 girls, and be monitored while you were given 5 minutes to shower under a steady drip of cold water. If you drank the water you were to be given a category 5 (the highest consequence) and put in R and R for drinking the water, because it was considered a self inflicted injury. The toilet paper was not to be flushed, it sat in a bucket next to the toilet where it ofter spilled over onto the floor.

The sleeping quarters had huge amounts of mold behind the beds and made many girls sick. The fungus grew so rampit, girls constantly got diseases on their feet. I got one. I asked numerous times for medical treatment and was given none,, and still to this day I don’t know what I had, but it ate away at the skin on my feet until they cracked and bled. I was switched from a top bunk to a bottom bunk because I was unable to get in and out of bed anymore and walking and exercising was difficult, but expected none the less. Nothing was done and it just got worse until I got home and was able to properly bandage my feet with sports tape and neosporin. A few weeks and a daily foot bath later. It was gone.

Some of the worst experiences I have ever had to endure took place in that facility. I think the worst ones were, when our bathroom privileges were taken away because either we were “abusing our privileges” by using the restroom too often, or we were on code silence (where the whole facility is not to talk at all, for no reason what so ever.) Since talking was our only means of communicating, with permission mind you, because ANY form of non-verbal communicating, from nodding your head to smiling was NOT PERMITTED. So when we went on code silence how were we to communicate that we had to use the bathroom? We didn’t. We sat there until we were asked if we had to go. Many girls wet themselves. Myself included, on 2 separate occasions. When we were denied our right as human beings to use the bathroom. It’s humiliating to be a teenager and have to wet yourself in front of all of your peers.

Seminars were held every month and a half. From watching videos, and reading about cults, looking back I firmly believe that’s what it was. A very intense 3 day brainwashing. They fish for what they want to hear and convince you of things that you have never thought of before. Some of it makes sence I guess, but most of it is completely crazy, and I feel so naive for falling for it. It makes me feel completely ignorant looking back on it.

In my opinion, Casa by the Sea is a brainwashing facility and a mirror image of a cult. I could write for days about the horrors going on in those facility’s but if you haven’t lived it you will never know. You’ll never know what it’s like to be taken from your life against your will. To be brainwashed, stripped of your personality only to be replaced by someone that somebody created and placed in your head. To be abused mentally, emotionally, and in many cases physically. To be publicly humiliated and broken.

The horror doesn’t stop there. I was pulled from the program when I was 17. When I turned 18, I knew my Mother could never send me back, and I was like a loose tiger escaped from the circus. I went crazy. I dropped out of school, got in the worst fights of my life with my mother and with random people. I lived on the streets, did more drugs than ever before, and became a dancer to support my new habits. I self destructed and destroyed everything. I know everything I did was my choice. But I believe that it was a direct result of what I had gone through.

These Programs are bad for the children, in the long run, bad for the parents, and awful on society. I still don’t understand why someone would pay a facility to abuse and neglect their children?

It’s hard to tell you all of this. It brings up nightmares for me even now, More than 2 years later. I have a family of my own, I’m married with a beautiful baby girl. On the outside, I look fine. But I still cry in my sleep. I know that this will always haunt my life and my dreams.

However, W.W.A.S.P on the other hand thank you. You taught me many things, I appreciate you opening my eyes to the horrors that children endure, thank you for teaching me that I can trust no one. That everyone is out for themselves, and that everyone will stab you in the back sooner or later. But above all else thank you for teaching me that I can do ANYTHING if I fight hard enough. Cliche isn’t it?

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  • Anonymous

    I read this story under a different website, and I hope whoever the author is gets this message. My sister went to Casa by the Sea, and your vivid accounts are similar to those of her stories. I am horrified, even disgusted at the exploitations of teen troubles and parent concern for financial profits and cannot even begin to imagine the hell you all went through. (A Man named Michael Perry is on death row sentence in Texas and says that his conditions are better than those of Casa). This article is the best i've read so far to help me understand my sister's experiences, and I thank you for spreading the word. I have nothing for admiration and respect for those who survived and go on living their lives after being psychologically scarred and battered. (I know many girls lose themselves after returning to society). People will never cease to amaze me with what the human spirit can endure and still have the strength to reccount. Thank you for writing and posting this.

    • JOSEPH

       ALL STUDENTS OR YOUNG WERE THERE WERE UNDER A AMERICAN DIRECTORS, OFFICERS AND FAMILIES HAD A WAY OF WORKING THEMSELVES TO THEM SAID, THE PROBLEM IN COMING FROM THE PARENTS ‘educations THESE YOUNG FOR MANY REASONS NOT HAD A NORMAL LIFE AND MANY OF THEM DESPITE BEING LEGAL in trouble solve WHY COULD NOT THE sENT THESE PROGRAMS THAT uNFORTUNATELY DID NOT WORK FOR GOOD STAY WITHOUT AN TAKE YOUR RIGHTS WERE damaged, THERE ARE MANY STORIES ON THIS EVENT WILL EACH HIS REASON AS WELL BUT CAN SPEAK EVIL OF PARENTS ALSO HAD KIDS did not respect the PROGRAM RULES, BUT EVERY LIFE EVERYONE IS DIFFERENT AND ACHIEVE ALL UNDERSTAND THAT PASSED ALL THINGS HERE , UNITED STATES IS A COUNTRY WHERE MANY PEOPLE WORK AND LIVE WELL ALSO SO THERE ANY PROBLEMS AS COUNTRY, BUT THE PARENT EDUCATION IS IMPORTANT FOR CHILDREN TO HAVE A GOOD FUTURE MANY CHILDREN graduated and never had problems and curiously THOSE NAMES ARE NOT SUCH SITES, BUT OTHER THAN THAT CAME FROM IS CARRIED ON THE FOURTH OF RESTRICTION FOR ONLY NOT FOLLOW THE RULES, STAFF WAS WITH THEM THAT WERE GOOD AND SOME THAT THERE WERE VERY sTRICT AND FROM THERE ALREADY THEN HOW TO TAKE EVERY YOUNG LIFE WAS NOT VERY NICE FOR NOT HAVING A GOOD DEAL

      • JOSEPH

         It that CASES IN WHICH THERE IF THERE WAS ABUSE OF ORAL STAFF TO YOUNG BUT THAT HAD TO RESOLVE THE ADMINISTRATION THAT WERE THE SR.DACE, JADE, LUKE, JASON, BUT IT WAS WELL KEPT BECAUSE OF THEM CLOSE THIS PROGRAM CAME TO AN END BY MEXICAN GOVERNMENT RESEARCH PERMIT FOR UNFINISHED, AND ANY REPORTS OF ABUSE OF YOUNG, BUT AS ALWAYS HAPPENS FOR ONE TO DO BAD THINGS, ALL PAY. I HOPE YOU WERE YOUNG PEOPLE HERE KNOW THAT LIFE IS LIVE ONCE AND BAD BEHAVIOR OR DRUG USE ​​ARE NOT THE RIGHT WAY, GO TO SCHOOL AND BE A PERSON OF PROFESSION AND HAVE A WIFE THAT YOU WANT IS THE BEST THAT THEY CAN GO AND DO NOT END YOUR LIFE TO 13.14 OR 15 OR MORE, I HAVE READ MANY CASES IN THE WEB OF MANY YOUNG PASSED BY THIS SITUATION AND I HOPE THIS MAKE UP AND BITTER HISTORY TOOK THEM GO Superate AND MOVE FORWARD. P. S. RESPECT THE OPINION OF EACH OF THE READERS, IF YOU IS NOT ME IT SEEMS PROPER CASE OF YOUNG DIED IN TEXAS SAID IT WAS BETTER TO DIE AT HOME BE EXECUTED BY THE SEA, THE COMMITTED A CRIME AND THEREFORE THAT COUNTRY SO RESPOND WITH PEOPLE YOU REMOVE THE LIVES OF OTHERS SO WHAT THE FINAL DESTINATION LOOKING FOR YOUR BEHAVIOR, AND I HOPE parents guide their children more and give them a good education

  • Ericalynt84

    I was at Casa from April 15th, 1999 to June 26th, 2000. Just 14 months. Never made it past level 2. The staff finally asked my parents to pull me because I was a “bad example” to other students. I spent about half my stay in solitary confinement. It was always stupid little things that got me in trouble, a wrinkle in the blankets on my bottom bunk bed where someone stepped to make up the top bunk, a “search for contraband” that messed up my clothes in the 2 baskets under the bed before “inspections”, forgetting (or honestly not caring and willing to take the consiquences) to ask permission to stand and use the bathroom because I ended up with food poisoning. 3 violations in a week and into solitary confinement you went. They said I was “non-compliant” and “stubborn”. They were probably right. It serves me well now as a woman working as an industrial welder.

     I’ve been looking for other former students on Facebook, but haven’t found any yet. I’d be happy to answer any questions about my stay in Mexico that anyone may have.

    Erica Kusske